Who Would Want to Date You Anyway

INSPECT When we think of the idea of dating, where do we get our inspiration from. Is it a movie that you fell in love with, and decided that it made all the sense in the world. Is it a couple you looked at for the better part of your life. The point is who taught us what dating should be or look like. Lets look at the typical definition of the word; A form of romantic courtship typically between two individuals with the aim of assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. The result of dating may at any time lead to friendship, any level of intimate relationship, marriage, or no relation(Definitions.net). When we look at the definition we realize that it is a communication that helps us form an opinion of the person we are currently mind stalking. Before you made the decision to say yes, what were the qualifing factors you brought with you to the interview before you accepted the meeting. Also are those qualifications based on and Idea or Reality. Did you do extensive research to find out what works, or what doesn't, or did you watch the TITANIC and say, if my relationship doesn't look like that then there is no relationship. Lets further evaluate the concept about basic tools that you construct and hold in your bag. IDEA OR REALITY People say that experience makes the difference, but where do you get experience from if you have never been given a chance to try. Dating in itself is a challenge especially if your only opinion of it is based on a well organized script that brought you into the reality of a show. Real life requires a little more disipline. You have to be sure of what you are even looking for in order for you to know what it is that you want. The most important part is that your mind is set to the purpose. People date for all kinds of reasons whether it be short term, or life long. You also have to set your mind that there is a possibllity that the person you agreed to meet can be anywhere on that spectrum. The thing is to find out, but when do you bring it up. Finding out what a persons dating direction is will essentially save that, "why didnt you tell me" later. The point of a relationship is essential to finding out where it will be carried. Maybe you need a few practise dates to get it right, but is that fair to the person that really wants to carry it the mile. On the other hand how do you get to know a person before you know you. When you get to know yourself that will be the only way to present yourself correctly to someone else. WHAT IS THE POINT Getting to know someone that fits into your reality perfectly can take some trials. First identifing what you want, but also be open to possibilities, may significantly change your dating perspective. Don't be afraid of failed dates. You have to change your frame of mind. You have to think from another PERSPECTIVE. A failed date is a future save from a life long Idea versus reality.